RUDY'S AT REGINA BEACH |
Approximately two-thirds of the human population taking any of these standardized
tests score between IQ 85 and IQ 115.
Just five percent of the population scores above 125.
This is all
good; however, Psychologist, Nicholas Humphrey, believes that it is Social Intelligence,
rather than this quantitative intelligence (IQ) that defines humans.
In exactly
this regard of Humphrey, EQ, as of late, has been widely coveted and certain
studies have shown that people with high EQ have greater mental health along
with better job performance and better leadership skills than the rest of the
human population.
EQ (Emotional
Quotient) is the ability to recognize one’s own or other people’s emotions, and
measurable abilities to use this emotional information to guide thinking and
behavior.
In both IQ
and EQ, the word, QUOTIENT, is used in reference to the degree or magnitude to
which a specific quality or characteristic exists; the celebrity’s likability
quotient is high, for example.
BQ (Buskology
Quotient), I’ve decided, is the social capacity to effectively negotiate a complex
social relationship in the context of any busking environment.
Take for
example, yesterday at the REGINA BEACH ARTS FRENZY. Every August, RUDY’S owner, LORI ZAK, sponsors
an Arts and Music festival for a cause, the proceeds for this year going to
mamas 4 mamas. RUDY’S is a fun and funky
beach shop that sells unusual items (cultural masks, buffalo hats, hand drums,
driftwood signs, beach ponchos, clothing items, and Buddha wall hangings) from around the globe, but only items made
with partner who employ fair trade practices.
By invitation, traveling
with my favorite buskmate and drummer, BARON, we drove through a blizzard of a million
cabbage butterflies on the way to the beach.
(This hot, dry weather we’ve been having, apparently, is conducive for the
cabbage butterfly to procreate up to five generations in a single summer season.)
Participants
at the FRENZY yesterday included dozens of vendors and artists in a semi-circle
around a main stage. I was invited to
busk there by my friend, JAY GREENMAN, principal organizer for the event and …
first in the entertainment line-up on stage was singer-songwriter, Regan Hinchcliffe,
a virtuoso guitarist of significant renown. (Regan and I and others shared the stage a few
months back at THE SIX SINGER-SONGWRITERS SUMMER SHOWCASE hosted by the
BUSHWAKKER BREWPUB … see my blog posting June 7th, 2015.)
Anyway,
dozens of cool artisans displaying their unique wares of paintings and pottery
and varied jewelry products, were situated in a semi-circle around the main
musical entertainment stage.
“Busk
anywhere you like, Neil, the entire place is yours!” explained Jay.
Baron and I did a quick walk around. Hmmm … to busk during the main stage
performance would have been outright rude.
Hmmm … to busk for 10 or 15 minute between performances would have been
noticeably cheesy. Hmmm … to busk anywhere
on the semi-circle somehow seemed demeaning, not necessarily for us, but for
the entire event in general. Hmmm … and
to busk elsewhere down the street in this little beach town would have been
quite unproductive, speaking strictly from a mercenary point of view. Hmmm ... had I known Jay arranged all of this as a mamas 4 mamas fundraiser, I would have gladly performed on the main stage for zeroth dollars.
It’s all
about the BQ (the BUSKOLOGY QUOTIENT), of which I consider mine to be quite high (if I don’t
say so myself). I know a busker who takes off his shirt,
sweats and stinks profusely while blocking the shoppers' entrance to MIKE’S INDEPENDENT on
BROADWAY AVENUE. I consider his BQ to be
quite low.
I know another busker who insists
on forcing his crappy guitar playing skills on a wait-in-line ice-cream outlet,
THE MILKY WAY on VICTORIA STREET. I
consider his BQ, too, to be low.
I must confess, however, that such social comparisons, comparing myself against
other buskers is an exercise in arrogance (on my part) and futility (so what
can be done … so what do I care what other buskers do). For me to represent myself as perfection as a busker is certainly an aplomb illusion, especially since I’ve employed only the ad hominem social comparison model.
Besides, how biggity and pretentious am I … really?
A more
enduring and appropriate, academic social comparison (this is not an oxymoron)
would be a temporal comparison; that is, my today self as compared to my
yesterday (or yesteryear) self. This
still may be an illusion, but at least I’m not discrediting other buskers in
their attempts to eke out a living.
Rather, I am adding just another page in my busker bildungsroman. (This is being more humble and having a human
compassionate attitude, one that I ought to always present.)
Having a
high BQ means to never busk uninvited near a captive crowd, an outdoor pub or
eatery. Having a high BQ
means to busk near vendors without their permission. Having a high BQ means to not vocally solicit
people for money. Having a high BQ means
to never infringe upon anyone’s privacy.
Having a high BQ means to always exercise common sense.
I shall
explain my metaphor.
I AM A
BUSKER. I PREFER TO BUSK ON THE SIDEWALK
ON SOME BUSY STREET WHERE THERE ARE ONLY PASSERS-BY.
I AM A
BUSKER. WHENEVER I TAKE A BREAK I SIMPLY
SIT ON THE SIDEWALK BY MYSELF OR WITH MY BUSKMATE, SIPPING WATER OR AMERICANO
DECAFS, AND SOMETIMES EVEN HAVING A FAST-FOOD SUBMARINE SANDWICH.
I AM A
BUSKER. I AM NOT WAITING TO BE DISCOVERED
AND DELIVERED TO A BIGGER STAGE. I
PREFER NOT TO BE IN THE LIME-LIGHT. I
PREFER NOT TO HAVE APPLAUSE FROM A STATIC STAND-AROUND CIRCLE OF AN AUDIENCE.
I AM A
BUSKER. I PREFER TO BE ON MY OWN
SCHEDULE, PERFORMING WHATEVER SONGS I WANT, WHENEVER I WANT, FOR AS LONG AS I
WANT.
I AM A
BUSKER. HMMM … BUSKING AT THE REGINA BEACH ARTS FRENZY WOULD HAVE BEEN BUSKING
IN A FISH BOWL –
I PREFER TO BUSK IN THE SEA.
Stating all of the above -- I NOT WANT TO DISS MY FRIEND, JAY GREENMAN, in his
laudable endeavor, who invited me to the REGINA BEACH ARTS FRENZY. In spite of not busking, I did have a good
time. I purchased a didge bag from
BOOMTOWN DRUMS (one of the vendors); I perused RUDY’S; I met all the musicians;
I even walked down to the beach!
Besides, I
did certainly have a palmy morning (pun intended) this same day at the FARMERS
MARKET in downtown Regina.
Here are
some of the characters, who marched in my CHAUCERIAN PARADE this past week, all
which taken at the REGINA FARMERS MARKET:
ANNA SCHAAB OF THE GARLIC GARDEN (MY VENDOR NEIGHBOR AT THE MARKET) |
SELF AND MARK PENNYWHISTLE (NOT HIS REAL NAME) |
ROQUE AND SELF IN AMSTERDAM! (A FEW YEARS AGO ... WHAT ARE THE ODDS!) |
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