Sunday, March 19, 2017


The BUCKET LIST is a checklist of things a person wants to do before “kicking the bucket.” To “kick the bucket” means to die.  To KICK THE BUCKET LIST means to get rid of the bucket list.

Running a marathon; climbing a mountain; setting foot on different continents; these are some of the so-so activities people commonly pencil on their bucket lists.  Standing in line at Milky Way in minus 20 degree weather was not on my bucket list. (See the picture left.)

KICK THE BUCKET LIST:  MAKING EACH MOMENT A MONUMENT.  Thinking about this topic I’m convinced that making the moments count is much more important than actually seeing the monuments. Life unfolds moment by moment, not monument by monument. Oftentimes, however, we fritter these moments by dwelling on the past, worrying about the future.  And for most of us, we see monuments only on annual vacations.

Life turbulence and chaotic relationships tend to force disconnects within ourselves on a daily basis.  To focus on the present for even a few minutes is a struggle.  Living in the now is enlightenment.  Enlightenment isn’t necessarily one moment in time, rather it is a space of times stretched into meaningful and thoughtful activities.  Living in the now heightens all the senses, hence heightens life. 

Factoid:  Lots of the people I know (most of the people I know) live in big boxes in the burbs and moil in little cavities in their workdays. To be arrogantly judgemental, they are hardly living.  Such living is mindless existing; enlightenment just isn’t happening.

When we are mindless we are missing in action in our own life.  Automaticity, that act of being perfunctory, driving to and from work is just one example.  Missing in action all day long is living like a zombie (pun intended).  

Most of us live in capsules.  Cars; offices; elevators; rooms; we go from one capsule to the next” (John Kim, The Angry Therapist, 2017). 

Little wonder I find great joy walking near water and hiking in mountains.  Rather than capsule to capsule, I tend to go for seasonal diversions.  Spring and summer busking; summer hiking; winter pond hockey; autumn after-gig brews with my buddies; moments as these take on great significance, in the cliché sense that during such moments LIFE DOES NOT GET ANY BETTER THAN THIS.  If one could only stop the clock and freeze the play in such moments.  

Ah!  Savoring a moment!  Ah!

Savoring moments is not without literary and philosophical and historical significance;  ZEN, CARPE DIEM, and MINDFULNESS, especially stay in mind (pun intended again).

  • ZEN

ZEN emphasizes rigorous self-control, meditation-practice, and the personal expressions of daily life.  Zen teachings can be likened to the finger pointing at the moon. 


The moon in the afternoon belongs to my son.
He looks at it and laughs.
It used to belong to me, but at night I never laughed.
(THE MOON IN THE AFTERNOON, one of my many unpublished poems.)

Not-so-strangely, I know not one person who practices the way of Zen. 

Factoid:  Most of the people I know are not even aware of Zen (I am so full of puns today).

Learn to savor the flavors of the present.  Practice seeing and experiencing things for the first time.  Take in not only the sights, but the scents and sounds and feel the presence in each. Zen is Lucy in the Sky.  If you can constellate the Zen moments, you will have a Zen diamond life.


CARPE DIEM can mean seize the day (for most people) or grasp the day (for English Literature majors like myself) or pluck the day (for the Latin purists). 

I’ve written lots on Carpe diem.  See WHERE YOU ARE IS WHERE IT’S AT:  AN ESSAY ON CARPE DIEM, EXISTENTIALISM, PHENOMENOLOGY, AND BUSKING (DECEMBER 05, 2010).  Alongside my favorite road theme writings, Carpe diem comes in a close second.


MINDFULNESS is the psychological process of bringing one’s attention to the internal and external experiences occurring in the present moment.  Popular culture now attributes mindfulness as being directly connected to greater well-being and good physical health.  In my community, strangely, it seems to be promoted mainly (only) through female counselors and school teachers.

In life I love the Zen theme.  In literature I love the Carpe diem theme.  As for bandwagons, Mindfulness is definitely the current theme rolling by, but I’m not jumping on it … yet.

Back to bucket lists:  Machu Picchu; Petra; the Great Pyramid of Giza; the Great Wall of China; the Colosseum; the Taj Mahal.   These are the monuments that people read and dream about and scribble onto their bucket lists.  However, as for the monuments, getting to and fro and the moments betwixt, are the real adventures in life.  Simply standing amongst a group of tourists and snapping a few photos is hardly an experience worth writing about.  I mean, really, one can at least attempt to experience any particular moment; however we all know because of family budgets, there are few opportunities, for most of us, to see world monuments.

What Stops You is a Zen photography tactic for taking the right pictures. A little angst and a little adventure make up the many moments that can stop a person, the moments that stop the clock so to speak.

Meanwhile, buskaroos …

Each buskspot is a mise-en-scene in the making, and each buskingdom is not necessarily a moment to remember, but certainly a moment to experience.  Monuments are few and far between; whereas, moments are forever present.  Moments are the continuous links from cradle to grave (I apologize for the cliché).  Learn to get lost in the moment.  Learn to forget your watch and enjoy the flow.  Enjoy the flow; stop the clock.

Living in the moment is not without paradox.  Overthinking, that process of self-evaluation, can either be self-deprecating or delusional, of both.  Just know that a waste of time is a waste of life.  If you footle your time you stay the fool. 

Dance the maxixe on each and every moment.  Find something that brings you pleasure and concentrate on it, sketching, bird watching, playing a musical instrument.
Enjoy the entire enterprise in your moments of pleasure from beginning to end, and the beginning should be just as pleasurable as the end.  This kind of focused pleasure is flow.

Some candies to crunch on:

“Now!  It is the most important time because it is the only time we have any power” (Leo Tolstoy).
Forever is composed of nows.  Life is a succession of moments  (Emily Dickinson).
Let us not look back in anger, nor forward in fear, but around in awareness” (James Thurber).
The past is over and the future is not guaranteed” (Wayne Dyer).
The past and future are real illusions” (Alan Watts)
Know that the distinction between past, present, and future is only a stubbornly persistent illusion” (Albert Einstein).
Life is what happens to you while you’re busy making other plans” (John Lennon)

Pining for the past and having angst for the future means missing the present.  Keep your thoughts with your feet.  Focus where your feet are.  Where you are is where it’s at!

Making each moment count is my best friend, Colby Williams, who is still skating in my CHAUCERIAN PARADE:


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